How painful is losing your virginity

I'd say, if 10 was pouring alcohol into an open wound, it would be a 5 stubbing your toe I've thought about this. A Anonymous Dec 18, A couple days later, I was ready to go - much better. Oh and apparently the sex itself is incredibly painful unless it's your husband, the vagina is that smart! That pain you get from pleasure, you know? Therapy is also helpful in overcoming various pain disorders that can affect women of all ages and all levels of sexual experience. Instead, clitoral stimulation usually causes them to orgasm.

Just because your partner doesn't say "no," it doesn't mean you have consent. I feel that if I lost my virginity, I would know what to and what to expect afterwards. What not to expect: