Bleeding losing virginity

In this case, seeking medical attention as soon as possible is advised. This could also lean into a whole self-esteem talk, but I'm not going there right now. Whatever the reason may be, it should be your decision. There are many things that may help to wear away the hymen over time, including certain activities such as gymnastics or horseback riding, as well as using a tampon , fingering oneself during masturbation, or being fingered by a partner during sex play or foreplay. Can you please help me? While I was still a virgin my BF put his finger in me first, then once I was ready he had sex with me.

The study considered the Indian subcontinent to also fall into this group, although data was only available from Nepal. The bulk of questions we get asked about first intercourse -- and we get asked about these every single day -- are: This is a tricky one, because rape poses the same risks as sex— sexually transmitted diseases , STIs, pregnancy—with added trauma. With the girl on top, she is running the show and can do what she wants.