Oral pleasure with older women

Read more about sex and aging in Sex at A Personal Reflection. The book uses delicately drawn illustrations to show female genitalia, with detailed instructions and suggestions on how to play, tease and stimulate a woman orally. Any behavior between two people needs to be negotiated. But in my practice, I find that more men are comfortable giving oral sex with no expectations of receiving it in return. You can research different toys and try them out to see what kinds work for you. How can I spice things up with my long-time lover? Just be sure to start gently - we did mention that it's highly sensitive, right?