Boyfriend plays with anus during sex

What does he want and what might you try? If it is done skilfully and gently, it is quite an effective way of helping a female to discharge. You may be overreacting some I really don't have the time to discuss this in a lot of detail but let me assure that your boyfriend wanting your finger or a toy up his ass does NOT make him gay or even effeminate. Let me put your worries to rest, little ones. I have to confess I enjoy my man rimming me but I don't really want to do it to him either. It is both gross and you run the risk of permanently tainting your toys with an unpleasant odor.